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Why your cold emails go to spam in Gmail (but not in Outlook)

ContentsWhat exactly did we observe?Is it an authentication problem?Is it the email copy?So what makes the difference at Gmail?What do we check every week now?How can you tell if your emails go to spam?What should you do if Gmail sends you to spam?

In short

  • In mid-September 2026, on our own sends: Gmail put 31 test emails out of 31 in spam, Outlook delivered 22 out of 22 to the inbox.
  • SPF, DKIM and DMARC passed everywhere: authentication was not the problem.
  • Rewriting the message changed nothing at Google: the copy was not the problem.
  • What mattered was the reputation of the sending IP address with Google.
  • On a new setup: 148 test emails, 0 in spam, at Google and Outlook alike.

You send a clean, authenticated, short cold email. It lands in the inbox at Outlook and goes to spam at Gmail. That is exactly what happened to us in mid-September 2026. We measured, ruled out the false leads one by one, and found the real cause. Here is what we learned about email deliverability, with the numbers.

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What exactly did we observe?

To find out where our emails land, we send test emails to mailboxes we control at Google and Microsoft, then check whether they reach the inbox or the spam folder.

In mid-September we ran 53 tests, across three recent sending domains, six mailboxes and two completely different texts. The result left no room for doubt:

ProviderTest emailsIn the inboxIn spam
Google (Gmail)31031
Microsoft (Outlook)22220

The same emails, sent from the same mailboxes, were accepted without reservation by one and rejected outright by the other. A result this clear-cut has one advantage: it lets you rule causes out.

Is it an authentication problem?

It is the first thing to check, and it was our first guess. Three DNS records tell mailbox providers that you really are the sender:

  • SPF lists the servers allowed to send for your domain;
  • DKIM signs each email to prove it was not altered;
  • DMARC says what to do with an email that fails the first two.

Across our 53 tests, SPF, DKIM and DMARC passed everywhere, at Google and Microsoft alike. Authentication was correct. It remains essential, but it was not enough.

Is it the email copy?

Second guess: "spammy" words, a message too short or too salesy. We tested two very different texts:

  • a three-line message, deliberately terse;
  • a 90-word message, concrete, explaining a real offer.

At Google, nothing moved: both ended up in spam. At Microsoft, both reached the inbox. The copy was not the cause.

Example

If your email goes to spam at one provider and not the other, with the same text, look at the sender before rewriting the message.

So what makes the difference at Gmail?

Once authentication and copy are ruled out, what remains is sender reputation: that of the domain and that of the IP address of the server that sends. Google judges it by its own criteria, and clearly not the way Microsoft does.

Our three domains were recent, and they sent from our former setup: a self-hosted mail server. To separate domain from IP, we built a new setup with a mainstream email host: 15 mailboxes on 3 new domains.

On the same day, with the same text, we compared the two:

Former self-hosted serverMainstream email host
AuthenticationSPF, DKIM, DMARC passSPF, DKIM, DMARC pass
Text sentIdenticalIdentical
Google22 of 22 in spam0 in spam
OutlookInboxInbox
OverallBlocked at Google148 test emails, 0 in spam, over 30 tests

The only difference between the two columns was the sending IP address. That is what Google was penalising.

What do we check every week now?

A reputation is never won for good. So we turned this test into a routine:

One test per domain, every week

Test emails to our own mailboxes at Google and Microsoft, plus a placement test.

Authentication

SPF, DKIM and DMARC checked on every test, not just at setup.

Blocklists

Public blocklists checked for every sending IP address.

No test, no send

A mailbox only sends when its latest test says 'inbox'.

One rule matters more than the others: a test that could not conclude never counts as a pass. If an answer is missing, the mailbox is treated as unknown and it waits. It is less comfortable, but it is the only way not to send blind.

Modest volumes

Our mailboxes send about 5 cold emails a day each. Ramping up volume too fast is one of the surest ways to damage a new reputation. Several mailboxes sending a little beat one mailbox sending a lot.

How can you tell if your emails go to spam?

No need to wait for prospects not to reply. You can measure it yourself:

  • create one or two test mailboxes at Gmail and at Outlook;
  • send them exactly the cold email you are about to send, from the same mailbox;
  • note where it lands: inbox, Promotions tab, or spam;
  • repeat every week, and for every new domain or mailbox.

An invalid address hurts your reputation too: every bounce counts against you. Verify addresses before writing, as we explain in our guide to B2B prospecting.

What should you do if Gmail sends you to spam?

In order, from cheapest to most radical:

  • Check authentication: SPF, DKIM and DMARC must pass. That is the baseline.
  • Test two different texts: if both end up in spam, it is not the copy.
  • Compare Gmail and Outlook: a clear gap points to your reputation at Google.
  • Change your sending server if the gap persists: that is what unblocked everything for us.
  • Keep volumes low and use a domain dedicated to prospecting, to protect your main domain.

Deliverability does not replace a good message or a good moment to write. It only decides whether your message is seen. For the substance, see our guide to sales prospecting.

Frequently asked questions

Why do my emails go to spam in Gmail but not in Outlook?

Each mailbox provider judges senders by its own criteria. In our case, with correct authentication and the same copy, Google rejected the reputation of our sending IP addresses while Microsoft accepted them.

Are SPF, DKIM and DMARC enough to avoid spam?

No. They are essential: without them an email has little chance of arriving. But they only prove you are the sender, not that you are a trusted sender.

Can changing my email copy get it out of spam?

Rarely on its own. We replaced a three-line message with a concrete 90-word one: Google sent it to spam exactly the same way.

How do I know whether my emails reach the inbox?

Send test emails to mailboxes you control at Gmail and Outlook, then check where they land. Do it regularly: reputation changes.

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